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JINSI YA KUWA MTU UNAYEJIAMINI

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Habari yako msomaji  wa blog hii , Ni matumaini yangu kuwa u mzima wa afya na kwamba unaendelea kuongeza bidii katika kujijenga kuwa mtu bora zaidi. Nafurahi na kufarijika  sana kuona kwamba kazi yangu inapokelewa vizuri.

Wiki hii tutaongelea juu ya kujiamini na kujiona mwenye thamani. Katika kipindi cha miaka yako ya ishirini , kujiamini ni muhimu sana na kutachangia katika mafanikio yako. Hivyo nakuletea mambo kadhaa ambayo unaweza kufanya ili uweze kujiamini zaidi.

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KARIBU

  1. Sisitiza mazuri ya watu na usiwabeze wala kuwatania wale wanyonge na wasio jiamini.  Huwezi kuwa mwenye nguvu wa kuwafanya wengine wanyonge vile vile huwezi kuwa mtu anaejiamini kwa kuwafanya wengine wasijiamini. Kuwa mtu unaewakumbusha wengine thamani yao hasa wale wasioifahamu.

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3.Kumbuka mazuri yako.

Ni rahisi kuona makosa na mapungufu yetu .Kumbuka pia yale ambayo ni mazuri yako. Unaweza usiwe mchezaji bora wa mpira wa miguu lakini ukawa ni mshauri mzuri sana kwa jamaa zako. Tambua hilo na uliboreshe.Kuongeza uwezo wako wa kufanya vitu unavyofanya vema ni muhimu lakini pia usisahau kujifunza kufanya yale ambayo huyajui.

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  1. Shirikiana na familia yako.

Kutoa ushirikiano kwa familia zetu ni muhimu na ni kati ya vitu ambayo kwangu binafsi hunifanya nijiskie vizuri sana. Hivyo ni vizuri kujenga ukaribu na mahusiano mazuri na familia yako.

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5.Jisamehe na Omba Msamaha.

Kama binadamu kwa kawaida huwezi kukosa kukosea. Kujuta na kujilaumu visije vikawa tabia yako ya kila siku.  Jifunze Kukubali makosa yako na makosa ya wengine. Chukua mambo haya kama fundisho kwako na usonge mbele.

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6.Tunza afya Yako.

Afya na hali ya mwili ni vitu vinavyofanya vijana wengi hasa wa kike kutokujiamini. Ni muhimu kujikubali vile ulivyo .Lakini ni muhimu pia kutunza afya yako.Kula vizuri, fanya mazoezi, kunywa maji ya kutosha na kupumzika.

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7.Jijenge kiroho.

Mambo yote niliyoyataja hapo juu yanahusisha watu wa nje na vitu vya nje.Lakini kujijenga kiroho hukujenga kutoka ndani. Husaidia kujua na kujielewa kwa undani zaidi.

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8.Chagua marafiki zako vizuri

Aliyesema nioneshe rafiki zako nami ntakuambia wewe ni nani hakukosea kabisa. Jifunze jinsi marafiki wanavyoathiri mtazamo wako kwa kubonyeza hapa

CHAGUA MARAFIKI

Na huo ndio mwisho wa post ya wiki hii ,tukutane tena wiki ijayo nikikuletea mada nyingine kwa ajili ya kuboresha miaka yako ya ishirini.

Kama umeipenda post hii usisite ku share na marafiki zako waliopo katika miaka ya ishirini.

Napokea maoni ya kujenga kutoka kwa wasomaji wangu ,ASANTENI SANA.

SAYONARA

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CAREERS & SCHOOL

HOLIDAY ACTIVITIES FOR ALL UNIVERSITY STUDENTS

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Holiday time ,

A time we have been looking forward to since school started! Blink and share this post if you can relate!

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I am a big pro-balance , i believe in late nights, early mornings and coffee but i also believe it is essential to lay back in the Bahamas and have someone bring you a Cool Mojito . So what do you do when you have a month or two of rest. Read On.
1.Rest
A bit Clichè right? But how many of us actually rest at least half of the time during the holiday?

While it is sometimes inevitable to reply that email, Attend that client, making time to take care of you, catch up on your favourite tv show or just sitting and breathing helps clear your brain and make you even more productive.

2. Learn a skill.

What a time to be Alive! Your next skill is literaly a few taps away. This skill can be a hobby you have been looking to get better at like sewing, singing, piano , cooking or something intergral in your career like history taking for new clinical rotation students or something you have wanted to do on the side( you have been talking about how you do not have time, and now Its here! ).

One of the founders of Afyatoon , an animation start-up that provides health education actually learnt how to animate during his summer holiday.

There are some things that are not taught in school and you are probably struggling with such as speaking in public , budgeting , dressing well, healthy living & more. Take time to train yourself on that.

3. Work on your side hustle
Balancing between studies and work is a challenge. Sometimes they are all demanding our time and energy. The holiday time therefore is a great time to focus on this thing , give it a mega push and this push will even save you the hustle when school starts.

 

4. Learn, explore and grow.
It is really eye-opening to learn a new thing or get to understand a certain topic . This can be a great time to do that. There is vast majority of knowledge and information on blogs, social media and in the actual world for you to learn .

Be curious, google , check out some you tube videos . But most of Enjoy your holiday .

 

What are you doing this holiday?

 

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ASK TWENTIES

LOSING MY REPUTATION TO AN ADDICTION;LESSONS IN MY TWENTIES

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You know the saying it takes twenty years to build a reputation and five minutes to destroy it, the sad truth about this is it is TRUE.
What if I told you am a doctor well-loved by my patients, have saved lives several times. The first image you will have of me is a well-rounded and respectable man. Well that was me a few years ago. I was the man. I did everything right, straight As, focused, well-mannered. Everyone who knew me wanted to carry me around like a trophy. Currently, I am a recovering alcoholic, I have practically no friends, colleagues barely answer my calls, but it wasn’t always like that, a decade ago.

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One of the most important lessons you will learn in your twenties is we all have our demons. Some it’s an ex who wronged us, others its sex, mine well was alcohol and an ex of course. For most of us, our proper relationships begin at our late teenage years and twenties.

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I met a lady a few years back and unlike the fairy tales,It did not last. Alcohol was my demon and I turned to it as a coping mechanism. I drank so much when my relationship crumbled, I lost a lot of friends and let family members down.
In one year my reputation changed from a hardworking guy to an alcoholic failure. The thing is bad reputations stick more than good ones, I haven’t touched a drink in more than two years, but I still get labeled as such.

Am turned 30 this year, I feel like my twenties have flown by so fast and, yet I have changed and grown a lot. I have had my share of bad days, weeks and months and am I yet to have more. I am aware that I need to develop my coping skills and speak or deal with what bothers me instead of finding unhealthy and destructive coping mechanisms.

So, here’s my take from it all.
Mistakes are a significant part of our twenties and a better off made NOW. There are less people that might be affected by you deciding to use all your money betting on Croatia for a good number of us.

In your twenties learn to reach out to a falling friend. So many times, we see friends failing and we never say a word. Speaking to our circle of support in times of highs and obviously takes a big load of our minds and theirs too.

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Success might take twenty years to achieve, don’t feel outdone. Social media is like a highlight reel of or lives. We are not seeing a great deal of the backstage to which we compare ours with.

Another thing is your reputation will NEVER recover, but its alright. People will give you a second chance, they will support you, but will remind you of your faults,  Accept your faults learn what happened has happened.

So, what should you do? Simple, wear your flaws and do not be ashamed of your struggles. Do not try to convince people your flaws aren’t a part of you. Life gets easier when you are open, it might seem tough, but you will cope.

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ASK TWENTIES

HOW TO APPLY FOR OPPORTUNITIES AND ACTUALLY GET THEM

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If you are one amazing twenti who seeks out opportunities to learn or seek support for something you do , at some point you have to prove your worthiness of what you are applying or contesting for.

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