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HOW TO GROW AS A PERSON

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I should first apologise for not posting last week. Last week was pretty crazy .I got several life blows in the face and so I had my hands  pretty full . Moving on , I almost always tell people that your twenties are the proper time to build yourself to be the adult you aspire to be , As a personal development freak , I am always looking for ways to improve sectors of mine that will bring a positive impact in my life. Today I am bringing you things you can do to build yourself much better.

Know your self .

I should hear this more. Knowing yourself is such a life saver. And this isn’t about surface ,it is good that you should know and connect with yourself to a deeper level. This is a crucial step because most times we are so busy building relationships with other people we forget to build ourselves. We are so busy knowing what other people are like but have lil knowledge about ourselves.

It is good to know your weaknesses and strengths . If you don’t everything will be  a misfortune or luck

Practice of good interpersonal skills.

Every now and then you meet someone with extraordinary interpersonal skills but chances are, you may not even know it. That’s because you usually notice it only when someone has poor skills in this area.

Someone without good interpersonal skills might take stupid risks or start yelling and screaming at the drop of a hat. You tend to notice these extremes of behavior  but you don’t notice it when someone is balanced and even tempered.Cultivate your mental development.Control your character through your thinking. The following are some key things to building good interpersonal skills.

  • Knowing what drives, angers, motivates, frustrates, inspires you
  • Ability to control unexpected emotions like anger and frustration
  • Knowing your own strengths and limitations
  • Self confidence
  • Initiative
  • Taking measured risks
  • Taking responsibility
  • The ability to stay calm and balanced in stressful situations
  • Persistence and perseverance in challenging situations
  • Resilience and ability to bounce back from setbacks
  • The ability to forgive and forget

Affirm yourself in your own worth.

Babies are born knowing their self-worth; as life moves on, the comments, expectations, and attitudes of other people can wear down this natural sense of self-worth. Self-worth is what enables us to believe that we are capable of doing our best with our talents, of contributing well in society, and that we deserve to lead a fulfilling life. Building it up again is therefore natural, essential, and healthy.

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Find support in your group identity.

In order to increase our self-image we enhance the status of the group to which we belong.A social identity is the part of an individual’s self-concept derived from perceived membership in a relevant social group. Feeling like you actually belong somewhere and being Damn proud of it is every humans need . So look into where you belong and be grateful and strongly feel that you are a part of that group and together you are significant members of the society.

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Take care of physical aspects of your life. 

Live Healthy, eat healthy foods, get enough sleep, exercise regularly, and avoid drugs and alcohol. Practice good hygiene. See friends to build your sense of belonging. Try to do something you enjoy every day.Nourish your social relationships as well,joys and pains are magnified by relationships.

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Thats a wrap . This post feels so healthy to me . I don’t know what you think. Let me know what you think via my social media pages. Do not forget to like Twentiesco Facebook page.

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Thank you

PS

Its two weeks to Valentines day Loves, ♥ ♥

Next weeks post is going to be fireeee.

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HOLIDAY ACTIVITIES FOR ALL UNIVERSITY STUDENTS

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Holiday time ,

A time we have been looking forward to since school started! Blink and share this post if you can relate!

Fun holiday activities

I am a big pro-balance , i believe in late nights, early mornings and coffee but i also believe it is essential to lay back in the Bahamas and have someone bring you a Cool Mojito . So what do you do when you have a month or two of rest. Read On.
1.Rest
A bit Clichè right? But how many of us actually rest at least half of the time during the holiday?

While it is sometimes inevitable to reply that email, Attend that client, making time to take care of you, catch up on your favourite tv show or just sitting and breathing helps clear your brain and make you even more productive.

2. Learn a skill.

What a time to be Alive! Your next skill is literaly a few taps away. This skill can be a hobby you have been looking to get better at like sewing, singing, piano , cooking or something intergral in your career like history taking for new clinical rotation students or something you have wanted to do on the side( you have been talking about how you do not have time, and now Its here! ).

One of the founders of Afyatoon , an animation start-up that provides health education actually learnt how to animate during his summer holiday.

There are some things that are not taught in school and you are probably struggling with such as speaking in public , budgeting , dressing well, healthy living & more. Take time to train yourself on that.

3. Work on your side hustle
Balancing between studies and work is a challenge. Sometimes they are all demanding our time and energy. The holiday time therefore is a great time to focus on this thing , give it a mega push and this push will even save you the hustle when school starts.

 

4. Learn, explore and grow.
It is really eye-opening to learn a new thing or get to understand a certain topic . This can be a great time to do that. There is vast majority of knowledge and information on blogs, social media and in the actual world for you to learn .

Be curious, google , check out some you tube videos . But most of Enjoy your holiday .

 

What are you doing this holiday?

 

Twentiesco consultation doors are open! Book your consulation today and lets walk  this adulthood  journey together.

 

 

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HOW TO APPLY FOR OPPORTUNITIES AND ACTUALLY GET THEM

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If you are one amazing twenti who seeks out opportunities to learn or seek support for something you do , at some point you have to prove your worthiness of what you are applying or contesting for.

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4 Tips for successfull Business In Agriculture For Beginners..

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agribussiness sucess tips

I have always heard national leaders claim that Agriculture is the backbone of Tanzania. Infact I wrote a couple of essay discussing this same a few year back in secondary school.
However, I have seen more backs deformed, callous on their hands and accidents where you cultivated your leg instead of the land than I have seen these same people afford to treat any of these conditions.
I have also been hearing that farmers in the west are rich and unbothered.
But then do you think such farmers cultivate acres of land ,wait for rain (fingers crossed ) , uproot weeds, harvest and sell to the next buyer that can pay them something close to half their children’s school fees?
Agriculture is a pretty lucrative sector. And if you aim in these areas , you might make a fortune.

1.Quality
There is a big market we are not accessing in the western countries because of standard barriers. A large number of crops we produce are of a good enough quality. But what about the end products? Can they cross the Jk.Nyerere airport without causing a security shut down? Another issue that hinders these products is packaging. Poor packaging makes a product look cheap and not reliable.

2.Processing and Storage
Why do we pay these timewasters so much.
Because they process raw products. Turning sisal to .. and selling finished products has higher profit . . Plus how do you expect to make much of a profit when everyone is trying to sell the same thing before it rots. These products need to be stored well too so that their value stays and can be sold even after the season is over.

Also Read: PACKAGING IS A PART OF BRANDING.

FAST MONEY IDEAS AND NOT TOO FAST

3.WHAT WOULD YOU FIND IN DOHA THAT IS IN KHARTOUM. ?
What is trending?
If you want to have a large market, go for products that are widely used in different places and some trending crops. Think Chia seeds, strawberries , pepper etc.

You can also contact restaurants for tenders so you have a market right away.
Let me let you in on a little secret a farmer told me.You do not need acres to farm. A green house is a perfect way to produce extremely quality crops that could sell in Antarctica for a million dollars . There is also an option of renting a farm .
That’s it fellaz ,As this weather moves you to cultivate other people, may you consider trying out crops. This is because agribusiness is worth investing in although it has not succeed to be as attractive as network marketing.

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